The Don’ts When Dating Through a Swingers Site

by Kyle and Stephanie

For some people, swinging is a very fun and exciting activity. Some people even consider swinging as part of their lifestyle. People that are into swinging want to enjoy their youth and freedom before they commit. Swinging is not really that bad if you think about it. Try going to a swinger party and you’ll see what I mean. The swinging lifestyle has even influenced the online dating scene nowadays. For those who are just getting into the online dating scene, you should be aware of the different dos and don’ts in a swingers site.

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Because the Dos when dating through a swingers site are too obvious, we are not going to talk about them. Instead, here are some of the things that you should avoid when dating through a swingers site. After all, knowing the things that you should avoid doing is just as important as knowing the things that you should do.

The very first thing that you should avoid when looking for a date or dating someone through a swingers site is disrespecting them. If you think trash talking people in these dating sites will turn them on then you are definitely mistaken. Disrespecting people simply shows that you are not a person that should be respected. Remember that respect goes both ways. In short, if you won’t respect people, they won’t respect you in return. Disrespecting people is a big no-no when it comes to online dating and the online swinger dating scene is not exempted from this.

The next thing that you should avoid is lying about yourself in your profile. At some point, you might be tempted to lie about yourself just to attract potential dates in these swinger dating sites. Because you are not really looking for a serious relationship, you might think that it will be okay to lie about yourself. While this can be true in some cases, there will be instances that a potential swinging partner will be able to see through your lies. If this happens then you are screwed. If someone finds out that you are a liar, you will begin to have a bad reputation in the swinger dating site that you are signed up with. As a result of this, you wouldn’t be able to find a single swinging partner in the future. So play it safe and just be honest. Nobody will hate you for it.

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Forcing people to “swing” with you is also a big no-no in the online swinging community. Not only will it give you a bad reputation but it will also make other people doubt your intentions. Forcing people to go out with you will give them the impression that you are planning to do something bad with them. Don’t let your desperation cloud your judgment because you will definitely regret it in the end. Instead, be patient and interact with as many people as you can. This will help you establish a wide network of acquaintances and open doors to countless possibilities in the future.

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